So it’s past 10pm on Sunday and I’m sitting at my kitchen desk. I’m tired, I feel like my ears are worn out from all the chatter of the past 7 days, and I wish I could just have a quiet day to myself tomorrow. But again, I need to remind myself that I’m so very lucky to be able to spend so many days with my boy. As I held his hand in theĀ backseat of theĀ car on the way home from our cousins’ house tonight, I realized that I should hold his hand as much as I can now. For there will be a time, in the not so distant future, I suspect, that I’ll ask for his hand and he’ll reply,
“Mom, give me a break! You’ve got to be kidding?! Buggar off!”
Or something like that.
So for tonight, I’m trying hard to remember that this phase of our lives won’t last forever. It won’t even last much longer than a blink. And if I don’t make the best of it now, I’ll only regret it in the future. I think that the fact that I have taken the time and effort to recognize this, today, makes me a Good Enough Mum.
I leave you with this picture of Little Man’s perfectly-pudgy-slightly-grimey hand, holding just one of the many bugs that were rescued from the pool today.


















Love the picture. And the reminder to treasure the time we have with our little ones. Thanks!
By: The Muser on July 21, 2008
at 12:55 am
Good reminder…I try to do the same after a brutal day of not listening, clinginess and tantrums. They won’t cling forever and won’t fit in my lap either…I’ll take the hugs and snuggles while I can!
By: Tanya on July 21, 2008
at 9:51 am
THanks, Muser. I love the way the shot came out, too.
Tanya, it’s so hard to remember, isn’t it? ESPECIALLY after those kinds of days….
By: goodmum on July 21, 2008
at 8:55 pm